When most couples picture their wedding film, they think of the walk down the aisle, the first kiss, or the first dance. But time and again, the moments that give your wedding video its emotional heartbeat are the speeches. Whether it’s your father sharing a heartfelt story, your best friend making everyone laugh, or your partner pouring their heart out, speeches bring your story to life.

As a wedding videographer, I can tell you that speeches are one of the most powerful tools in shaping the narrative of your film. They can turn a beautiful highlight reel into something personal, timeless, and unforgettable. Yet too often, speeches are left to chance — hurriedly written the night before or delivered without much thought about how they’ll translate on camera.

That’s why I’ve put together this guide, not just for you as a couple, but also for the VIPs in your life who will be standing up to speak. My goal is to help you create speeches that feel natural in the room and truly shine on film.

Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and capturing it on film allows you to relive every precious moment for years to come. But with so many options and styles available, choosing the right wedding videographer can feel overwhelming.